Couples Assessment
Illuminate every dimension of your relationship
The Family Systems Engineering Couples Assessment is our most comprehensive diagnostic tool. Over 155 questions across 8 scientifically-designed sub-assessments, you and your partner will gain deep insight into your relationship dynamics, communication patterns, love languages, cultural compatibility, and areas for growth. Each partner completes the assessment independently, and the system generates both individual and comparison reports.
Are you taking this assessment alone or with your partner?
$40
Benchmark package price
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Before You Begin
This diagnostic is built on the Family Systems Engineering (FSE) framework. You are not being graded — you are mapping the variables that shape your family system today, so you can engineer it intentionally tomorrow.
- Answer honestly — there are no "right" answers. Your truthful reading produces the most accurate map of your family system.
- Take it in one quiet sitting where you can reflect; progress is saved automatically if you need to pause.
- You can take this alone, or invite your partner from your results page. When both partners complete it, your reports will highlight areas of agreement and disagreementacross family vision, belief alignment, and cultural orientation.
- Your responses are confidential. Some modules (e.g. F-SAFE) touch on early-life experiences — answer at your own pace.
What You Will Discover
Included Sub-Assessments (8)
Personality Discovery Assessment
Discover your personality type using the Brand of Car model. Understand your dominant and complementary traits.
Marital Effectiveness Assessment
Evaluate the overall effectiveness and health of your marriage across key dimensions including communication, intimacy, finances, and shared vision.
The 7 Systems of Love Diagnostic
Discover your love codes across seven systems: Affirmation, Service, Presence, Touch, Symbolic Giving, Growth, and Safety.
Culture Compatibility Test
Understand your cultural beliefs and values on a Traditional-to-Evolved spectrum across key relationship domains.
Attachment Style Assessment
Understand your attachment patterns in relationships: Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, or Disorganized.
Marital Formation Assessment
Discover your marital formation pattern: Bossy Don, Tantis Romeo, Galacticos, Brethren, or Dream Team.
F-SAFE: Family Systems Adversity & Foundations Evaluation
Identify patterns of adversity or trauma experienced in childhood across five systems of family life. This is a sensitive assessment - your responses are confidential.
F-SEIT: Family Systems Self-Identification Test
Measure how clearly you understand, accept, and express your authentic self within your personal, relational, and cultural systems.